JUST LET THEM
Just let them.
If they want to choose something else, let them.
If they are okay with never seing you, let them.
If they are showing you who they are, and not who you perceive them to be, let them.
If they want to judge or misunderstand you, let them.
If they want to walk out of your life and leave, hold the door open for them, and let them.
If they want to get you out of their lives, be okay with that, since you were never with them but was always your own, so let them.
Let them show who they really are, not what they want you to see.
Just let them.